lifestyle,  work

Change of Plans

Isn’t it strange how you wake up one day, and you feel entirely different about a plan than you did before? Maybe a year ago, a month, or even a few days ago something was so clear to you. You knew exactly what you wanted to do, and you knew how to go about doing it. And on one day, there can be a 180-degree change of plans.

I know it can be frustrating. There are those of us that are planners, and nothing is more frustrating than someone changing our plans, including ourselves. But life happens, things change, we evolve. Your career path, your niche, or even your dream project can be one decision away from being the total opposite of what you wanted originally.

Reflect

What changed? You should be able to pinpoint the reason why your plans have changed. It could be a specific moment in time or a series of events. Maybe you’re changing your plans because you’ve personally grown in areas that require attention to be focused elsewhere.

How exactly did your plans alter? This answer should be definite. Before I wanted/believed _________ and now I want/feel _______. This change does not have to be opposites. You could initially want to leave a position at the beginning of the year and now while you still want to leave you may decide that you need to adjust your timeline to benefit your overall goals.

When should you act? This one is hard because it depends on the importance and timing of the change. It could be immediate, or it could be delayed. Ultimately, it must feel right to you. Don’t rush to do anything too drastic that doesn’t leave you the opportunity to flexibility. Always remain flexible.

Once you have reflected on your changes you are now ready for them. This reflection will allow clarity and make you more comfortable to commit to them. You are now, also, more equipped to handle the future changes that are coming.

And if you feel like changing your mind again, then change it again. Life is full of twist and turns. So, of course, naturally, your mind will have the same twists and turns. It’s a fine line between being open to change and remaining dedicated to your goals. So, I know it’s hard to know when to do one or the other.

As abstract as it sounds, you will know when it is time to change course. Business is also what feels right so we shouldn’t always discount feelings like we are traditionally taught to do. Feelings should lead your decision making but it should assist in it.

"There is only one thing I hate more than lying: skim milk. Which is water lying about being milk." -Ron Swanson